What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 29.06.2025 02:22
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
Is depression a cause for always feeling tired?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
Can you share any "backstage pass" experiences you have had at concerts?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
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Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
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Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
Who was the most ignorant American you have ever met?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
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60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
29- How superstitious are you?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
How old are you? Male or Female?
What are some good interior design tips for mixing lots of colors together in a room?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
What was something you did naughty with your cousin?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
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36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
How can I handle my distrust and jealousy for my partner?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
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72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
39~ What are your love languages?
How do I cut off friends that don't contribute to my life?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
What is your favorite position? Why?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
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1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
Any that are a turn off?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
If yes, what?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
*** Questions About Me ***
Family Relation Age Play
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
Please share Did you stop?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
*** Random Questions ***
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
Would you read them together?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
Have you ever? Care to Share?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
The Ice Breaker Questions
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
If you win, what will you make them do?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
Any that are a turn off?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
52~ What are your hobbies?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
Nothing too Serious
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?